The Power of Focusing on What You Can Control, Not What You Cannot

Chatura Dilan Perera
2 min readFeb 16, 2023

Life can be unpredictable, and it’s easy to get caught up in worrying about things that are beyond our control. Whether it’s worrying about the weather, the economy, or other people’s behavior, it can be all-consuming and stressful. But focusing on what we can control rather than what we cannot control can help us feel more empowered and in control of our lives.

When we focus on what we can control, we can make changes and take actions that have a positive impact on our lives. For example, we can control how we respond to situations and how we choose to think about them. We can also control our attitudes, behaviors, and habits, which can have a significant impact on our overall well-being.

Here are some ways to focus on what you can control:

Identify what you can control

Start by identifying the areas of your life that you can control. These may include your thoughts, emotions, behaviors, and habits. You can also control your environment, the people you surround yourself with, and the choices you make.

Let go of what you cannot control

Once you’ve identified what you can control, it’s important to let go of what you cannot control. This can be challenging, but it’s…

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